Tag and what did it say to you? Did you say anything back (metaphorically)?

Early in the novel, Tita discovers herself through a series of painful episodes (losing Pedro, losing Nacha, losing Roberto, etc.), but she also discovers herself through love (for and from John, for and from Roberto, for and from Esperanza, etc.). Which episode spoke most clearly to you, and what did it say to you? Did you say anything back (metaphorically)?

Early in the novel, Tita discovers herself through a series of painful episodes (losing Pedro, losing Nacha, losing Roberto, etc.), but she also discovers herself through love (for and from John, for and from Roberto, for and from Esperanza, etc.).…